Maybe this whole soft ball thing is his dream and not hers. I think you should support her and love her and quit letting him put so much pressure on her to be this superstar.

This is one way that kids that have that initial passion end up quitting because the parent(s) wanted it more than the kid did. This guy left, he can't keep controlling your life.

kat


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