you are correct - i should edit that suffer part - the part that wants that is a part of me i found over the past few months while trying to better myself, a part of my past ways that i want nothing to do with.

Originally Posted By: robx

trust isn't just given easily, it's worked for through consistent effort and actions, she hasn't done any of this, don't deprive her of the process, gives you a chance to build trust with her as well by showing her that you aren't some evil prick bastard who's going to make her pay for her indiscretions for the rest of her life, that wouldn't be fun

lol - i don't want to be an evil prick bastard either

any real suggestions on how one begins to trust that partner that cheated?

she is asking me "what do you want me to do"? giving me comments of "just divorce me so you can find someone better than the whore home wrecker i am" - which i see as an atempt to take the "victim" title and put over her.

M-37 W-36
S-11, S-9, D-4
PA exposed 3/13/10
10/19/10 moving on...
most up to date sit