Hey Mind... if you go to the love languages website there is info on love languages for kids... I think there is even a book on it. I found it very helpful. I can't remember the web address tho... might need to google it.
You continue to inspire me. With your example and CB holding me accountable I am starting to get more active too! Just walking so far, but it's all good. Just cuz I lost weight on the "LBS diet" doesn't mean I am healthy or fit
On another note... it sounds to me like you are making progress with detaching. I know how hard it is but you seem to be able to more easily do what you need to do for you when H is in one of his moods, rather than letting it get you too far down. That is progress my friend!