If a reconciliation were to occur, I believe that both partners need to acknowledge their part in the breakdown of the M. I just don't see how it could work if this didn't happen.
And again, you are spot on. And again, like I said with mine, when that acknowledgement comes, it HAS TO BE WITHOUT accusation of the other spouse. IE- "I wouldn't have done this if you hadn't of done that" type stuff.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
