HI NM! You are welcome! I feel I am very lucky and blessed too to have her here and I am sure rooting for you!!! All seems to be going very well for you!

I will have to "answer" what he has put in the papers such as:

Full custody-I agree
Splitting the property/bills 50/50-agree or disagree
Do I believe that we have tried everything to make our marraige work and that it is not reconcilable-DISAGREE!!!!

Basically, that is the only thing I disagree with. There may be some issues with some things that were purchased with money I inherited when my Dad passed away but basically. if I do not agree with something, his L will answer back etc. A judge may require my H to go into some kind of counseling. My H did tell me back when he dropped the OW bomb that he had contemplated suicide so I can use that besides our M as a reason for counseling. This process could draw out the divorce for awhile which is what I am hoping for.

Hope this answers your question!

Going to be talking with DB coach here in a little bit about how to talk with H about what the D will to to our finances


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing