oh--and no more doormats for me!! no more settling, no more weak, immature, irresponsible, narcissistic men. I'm healthy enough now--finally--to want someone else healthy as well. no more "neuroses calling out to each other!"

Interesting things besides the dreams this weekend. D14 reports that xH tells her he hasn't seen OW all weekend. I think they usually have horse shows and travel on weekends, because D14 is rarely with him on weekends (as in, once every few months or so, and rarely for the whole weekend). D14 is very interested in this turn of events--thinks OW is about to dump xH, in her words! Probably wishful thinking on her part, but it has been about 2 years and the chemicals are perhaps wearing off.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012