GG, I exposed to family and friends and you are right, it didn't end the A. BUT at least they knew the real reason why WH was gone and my rep was saved, lol!

Do you think your H wants to divorce you?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004