Thanks a lot for your valuable input rr22. It's always good to get the opinion of a woman. I appreciate it.
Yes, we have talked about my lack of knowledge regarding relationships and when we talk about it she agrees and understands.
I think you are right that I have to just continue communication without pursuit and remain confidant and attractive to her. I might consider some subtle romantic gestures, if the opportunity arises.
I guess I just have to be patient. I am speaking with a relationship coach and she says that the loser boyfriend relationship is doomed and can't work anyway, for reasons that I listed previously.