Is it too late to expose affair?

[gardengirl72]

Thanks AA for your insight.

The OW lives about 40 miles north of me and 100 miles south of H. She doesn't work outside of home (doesn't need to, she's financially secure)....she babysits grand-daughter while her D and SIL work.

At this point in time, I think my H would welcome exposure to the affair....that way H would not have to hide any longer or deny he is seeing her. H has admitted to still talking to her.

I think exposure would work better with a W having an A than a man. I think a W would be more apt to be embarrassed by exposure than a man. I especially do not think it will work if H does not want to be married any longer.

I would be curious as to how this worked with other W's doing this to their H's.

Anyone....please??

~gg