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No one knows for sure and honestly, that should not be the reason to do ANYTHING.

It does make it harder on both people. It is more difficult to detatch and do the things that you need to do, because you are watching her every move…

It makes it harder for them because they have to look at us every day…

I chose to let H remain if he wouldn’t leave…

I have seen more than I would have if he was not there…

He has also seen my changes more easily and what is real and what wasn’t…

BUT, I did have to get to the point where I viewed him as a roommate in order to not be affected by his antics…

Harder, but not if that makes sense…

Only you know what you can handle…


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox