here we go again

[newmama]

Jstar, I have to be honest here....I believe that if you make decent efforts to be a good parent (the best possible in these separated sitches), it says a lot about your true character.
YOU are amazing. Your H's slacker parenting actions reflect his true character.

For me, all I needed was to see my WH not be interested in S and act like a deadbeat dad and it would have motivated me to cut him out of our lives. Luckily for S, the opposite happened. So it showed me that I am right to believe the real WH is inside of him somewhere. And I devoted myself to limbo! (argh!)

So imagine your life as a divorced mom. Picture the worst. Post it here if you want, but what are the obstacles you are facing? YOu are single mom now as it is and you are doing it. Also picture the benefits of not waiting on H.