Gardengirl, your H's A is a long term affair, right? It really needs tough tough consequences especially since he hasn't said that he wants to divorce you.
About exposing to the daughter:
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If H will be THAT livid that you exposed to his daughter, you expose to someone that will expose to her.
OK so I am a supporter of MWD's DBing principles but also follow Dr. Harley on marriagebuilders.com. Dr. Harley would recommend filing for legal separation with a loving NC letter that says you want to stay married but need to protect yourself but let's not jump too far ahead. He always says to expose first.
Allen should write his own book and charge for his services :-) so listen to him. I think he is trying to tell you before you do anything else, to expose, then wait a little.
Live your life (IT SUCKS AT FIRST) but start exposing and post here!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
