Does the xW or WAS ever apologize for the pain and hurt caused? How does the reconciliation occur? The damage done by the WAS is so great, if they think they can just waltz back into a relationship without careful consideration, I don't see how it can work. The LBS has done so much damage to the relationship as well, but the WAS should acknowledge their part too.
Just some questions.
M:39 W:37 Together: 16 years Married: 11 years Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY) Moved out: Nov '09 D: 10, 8, 4