Flow, yes, the thing that I know will cause me to harden my heart to WH is if we D, he will be TAKING MY SON from me. What I mean is that you and I expected we would have our children with us every day, right? Well, with any kind of custody (20-80, 40-60, 50-50 etc.) it means that is not the case. So I relate to what you are feeling. But short term sacrifice for hopefully long term gain (i.e. not getting divorced).

How was the Italian dinner? Did yoga help you feel better?

Great job biting your tongue! And did your H say anything else after you said "I got your email"?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004