setting boundaries when not clear if A is over

[newmama]

Piano, are you relieved to hear about the custody rights from the L?

I agree with Maynard- nothing to respond to. Especially if you are doing N.C.

Oh wait- Did you ever email him what you posted here about how it is too hard to see him while he is doing this?
This could be a way to say that now. However youcould also wait and then send it separately. BUt I wouldn't be sympathetic to his sitch.

When the baby is born, you will see what he is willing to do for your baby and you. I hope he ends the A when the baby is born/ wants to come back like I have read happen to many others in your sitch (it is possible)but you are so smart to prepare for the worst!

Yeah, it's tough being jobless. But don't you think it's toughER to be abandoned when you are pregnant? I may defend my WH in regard to his attentiveness to our S and he has been financially responsible but he still left me when I was pregnant-there is no defending that action. I am sure he justifies it by saying I forced him to leave! (LOL)

Now, if you don't feel like responding or saying anything at all to his email, then Let me put it this way- if you don't respond, it is not going to push him to D.