I'm doing good, thanks Sandi. Sorry I didn't post earlier, I was kind of waiting to hear back from you first. Wondering if you had any additional comments from my last post.
One interesting development last week, coinciding with my post. Cell phone bill came, so did my normal "trust but verify" thing to see if there had been any contact with OM. Sure enough, a series of text messages and a quick call between the two of them. Interesting that after this contact, she seemed to open up to me a bit more, engaging me more in conversation, etc. No further contact from OM since. We seem to be gettting better each week - still no physical touching though.
My Birthday was good, spent time with some friends watching playoffs in both hockey and basketball. I did get a gift and card from the kids, but also made sure I thanked W for the gifts, knowing she did all the shopping. Nothing specifically from her, though.
She is leaving this weekend for a sisters weekend. In the vein of trying some more romance, I'm planning on doing two things. First, I'm going to send flowers to the hotel telling her to have a good weekend. Second, I will be getting a new treadmill for us and setting it up while she is gone. We both use the current treadmill, but she has been complaining about it for the past month or so, even commenting about buying a friends used one. So a surprise when she gets home.
So still being patient, watching and listening and wondering what I can do to break through the fog.
