Thinks 180 May be Backfiring

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That's part of my problem is I get stressed out about things that don't really matter - I know this about myself but it's very difficult to explain to other people.

No, I get it. Not difficult to understand for me b/c I've been there. Why do you need to control?

I think there are some things that is okay or me to do if I dont mind, right?

As long as you TRULY don't mind - and are NOT KEEPING SCORE.

Part of this is my inability to let go of control and a lot of that has to do with a specific system I set up - again, I understand that this is my fault and my problem.

Control for me was/is about Trust. Do I trust the people around me to help take care of what matters? There are many things that my H will now help with that have absolutely no importance to him EXCEPT that he knows it is important to me. And that came about b/c I let go and communicated.

From the above does it sound like I'm doing this correctly? I thought I was but now I'm not so sure.

I can't say just by reading you if you are correct or not. You tell me - are making these changes for you? Are you doing them with peace in your heart or are you running a tab on him? Are you not SAYING things but communicating them in other ways?

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