Maynard said: I've had sex twice w/ W back in Novemeber--UGGGHHH...I do regret it b/c OM was in the picture, and b/c it showed that I was readily available to W...I don't regret it b/c it may have been the last time I was intimate w/ W...before that was Sept.
This is an interesting point. Maybe you could keep control of the sitch by saying, "Okay. But only once." And hint that you would reconsider in the future depending on her behavior. And then stick to it when she tests you over the next month or so. If you have the stomach to do all that, say it like you mean it, and follow through with the holdout afterwards. Then you can see what happens. Keeps you in the driver's seat if you stick to your stated plan. Others on this board will possibly disagree. I don't know. Depends on your sitch.
