I disagree with you L and C. I think the OM's wife should know. Your wife does not sound that remorseful and does not seem to care about the full impact of what she is doing. What she is doing does not just impact her family alone. You need to set some serious boundaries with serious consequences. If you are going to contact these om, then you need to leave now. If you are going to have cybersex with om then I will press for full custody. Plain and simple with her. Shock
