I ask this because there is very often during the exposure phase a LOT of "friends" whom you expose to who just wont' believe you.
They will turn their head away and tell you its none of their business, etc. Long time friends fo both you and H will feel conflicted and won't know what to do, especially simply with your say - so that an affair is taking place. They will insist on proof - "I just can't believe he would do that... are you sure?" Is what you often hear.
If you can get your daughter to drive up the cabin or something and surprise the two of them, then you can refer anyone who doubts you to refer to your daughter who caught the two of them together.
Exposure is a difficult task emotionally, as this is a test of yoru freind's loyalty.. at this point in time you will be finding out who your true friends are.
Collect any and all evidence of an affair you can. If you can organize everyone to confront him and interfere with his fantasy world that's the best approach.
Affairs are to Love Stories what Stalking is to Dating
They think they are in love, trust me, they are both addicted to a sleazy fantasy... affairs never pan out long term...
Infidelity hurts people, but they never show that part in the movies...
