I know, I know, I dropped the ball. But for a minute there she seemed like the person I knew, not the person she's invented for herself. I wanted to give my wife a kiss goodbye, because even though this new person is living 10 minutes away, I feel like the woman I loved is leaving forever. I told her this new person does nothing but hurt people who loved her, and I didn't like her. She let down her guard and I gave her a hug & kiss, and left. I'm done with this new person. If that's who she wants to be, I want nothing to do with her. I just wanted to say goodbye to the woman I loved. If nothing changes in a couple months I'M going to ask for a divorce.