My (x)W immediately changed her name back to her maiden after the D. When I asked why so quick she sighted it as out fo respect for me and that I had in fact requested her to do so quite a few times when the A went full blown and the D threat was emminent.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11