Are you still attracted to your Ex?

[elscotto]

Chances are probably pretty reasonable though that when she decides she made a mistake you will have already moved on--especially if you handle you correctly and move along with life.

Funny thing is I was talking to my mother a week ago and she "I know you well enough to know that if/when the time comes that your ex decides life didn't suck so bad being married to you that you have it within you to play with her and her emotions for a while before you kick her to the curb." I thought about it for a second and I said I think you are right but the irony of it all is by the time that opportunity comes my way I have a feeling that I won't care anymore. My friends are already starting to comment that they think I may not be too far away from that spot at this point and some say I am there.

I just want the nastiness, bitterness, and unpleasantness to move along so I don't have to harbor it. I hate being the vessel that carries that acid--and it will eat you alive if you are.

My 2 cents. Thanks all for the contributions.