In a nutshell, she told me if I got stationed stateside, she would go with us but if I went overseas, then she would not go. I told her, either you're with me all the way or you're not. She said, you're right. So, I asked her again Sunday morning what her intentions were and she said she would not go with us. It seems that she is more interested in the well-being of her 20 year old son than her 14 year old daughter. Her son is 20 has no job, is married and has a kid on the way. She has refused to pay child support but has paid his phone, internet and cable I found out for the past 3 months. Hmmmmmm, pay this or pay for your minor daughter's needs---I don't get it. She doesn't seem to have her priorities straight.
Also, she wasn't sticking to my boundries. There was no transperancy. No access to her cell phone bills or emails. I suspect because she brought it up so often that she was home because of money.
So, I'm getting my house in order to sell. I painted yesterday and will continue to fine tune it for the next 2 weeks and then it goes on the market. If nothing better pops up than Germany for assignments, I will volunteer for that I think and take my daughter to see and experience Europe.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
