My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[BeingMe]

Well, last night I dreamt I was a Royal Mountie and was worried about getting my red uniform dirtied since we rarely used them in public. Where that came from ... who knows?

Sometimes, dreams are just our brains way of putting out the garbage. IMHO, it's out, now leave it be.

Although, I have read that dreams can have symbolic purpose. So, what symbolic issue does OW represent, or XH having a heart attack, or changing churches?

In another matter --- something I told a friend years ago. Her H was very violent and used to have affairs and flirt with other women in front of her. I used to berate him, calling him all kinds of names. Then I got it (she is a very soft person, a good Catholic who has no intention of ever divorcing him) --- "men are not attracted to doormats", I told her. I was more assertive in those days. I got soft in my own M, and look what happened. But, my friend started to get it --- she stopped putting up with his roving eye, etc. They are still married. And, he is no longer abusive.

I don't know if there is a message in there for you, but I need to be like that again. Although, your H wiped his feet on you by allowing you to pay for his studies. In my case, my H is paying for me to study full-time and he will be paying for my D17's upcoming college fees.

I am waffling --- take care.