Sorry, I thought previous post was directed at me.
H has moved up north...the cabin is actually a year around house that we used to spend week-ends at, but since retiring, have been spending more time at. Everything he needs/wants is there.....the land, the boat, the ATV, the tractor, basically all his 'toys'.....for the last 20 years this is where we were planning to retire to.
Family members have said friends are puzzled as to why I'm not there...H is telling them I'm choosing not to come. "We're living in two different zip codes now" H says.
Family members have not said anything about OW to these people because they weren't sure how I would feel...I have since told all to go ahead and tell the truth as to why he is there by himself! (I just wasn't sure if I should expose him to friends too)
Thanks again... ~gg
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north