Starting Over (Again)

[flowmom]

Cautious, I think you need to consider whether you would want your X to reconcile with you because of your pregnancy. It seems like that's what you're asking him to do...but is that right for you and your S and your unborn child? If your H felt emotionally blackmailed into reconciling with you...realistically would he have the motivation to do the necessary work?

I can understand that your emotions must be all over the place with dealing with the D and the pregnancy and all the hopes and fears that that brings with it. But I think you need to deal with your emotions so that they are not continually exploding with your H. From your posts it sounds like you are trying to control your reactions...but I think you need to be more proactive and process all the pain and anger that is present for you.

hugs to you. These are very difficult things.