I still find it so interesting that your H is all about the acts of service. Yes some acts of service would be expected from a father who is trying to support the mother, but stuff like ordering you specialty lightbulbs for your bathroom...dare I say that it is courtship-like behaviour? Baffling to me how someone could be in an A and be doing stuff like that for you...?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.