hey cool nm! you sound great!! and great job to H for doing all those helpful things! encourage good behavior and it can increase
now I want H to think that you are doing FUN things. that's why I want you to do something other than grocery shop. yes, it may be galing for you, but not in H's eyes. grocery shopping is a chore to him.
so what else can you do??
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."