5 more days till the Big D

[brknheart]

Hello all. Mediation went "ok". The law sucks... I can understand why the law is the way, say it is when a husband leaves his W who has been a housewife for 10+ years and has 3 kids. In that scenario the W needs financial stability to continue her life. We have no kids, my W hasn't worked in 5 years since she has been going to school. Community property, community debt. In the end though, I came out "ahead" in the eyes of the law, but morally I feel I was screwed. What comes around goes around. She has no clue what she has done to me the past 6 mths, mainly because she has not heart. Back to the mediation, I made the mistake of answering back to her when the mediator left the room whenever he had to draw up some paperwork. She started asking me personal questions about my life, as if I want to be friendly to her. She ask me if I could send her pictures every so often of the cats, I said no. After the D, no more contact. She was upset, said its a shame it had to be this way. CU-CUKOO. Several times during the mediation she started to cry...fake crys to try and get the mediators sympathy. It didn't work, he has seen it all. She makes me sick... It was confirmed to me that something is going on with my "friend" and her. Let them have their fun, it wont last. It may seem like peaches and cream right now but when she realizes what she has done, that day wont be pretty for her. One things for sure, she will never find someone who loved her as much as I did...

sorry, I had to vent. I need a machine that erases certain people from your memory...