"You may not want your husband back, but that's no reason to enable your husband cheat on you. Phil McGraw always says you have a right to end your marriage, but you have to earn your way out, you can't go sneaking out the back door lying and cheating... that is NOT the way to end a marriage... it indignifies many years of commitment and your marriage is worth ending it with the respect it deserves."
I don't feel I'm 'sneaking out the back door'....and I feel by not involving my step-daughter I am 'ending it with respect.' I do KNOW my H is being disrespectful to me, but that doesn't mean I need to do the same. ~gg
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north