still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

Okey dokey-am chillin w/ S! Well today I had a burst of energy to run my errands and take care of the house.
I did think of Saint's suggestion to show my fun side so when WH arrived, S was sleeping so first we made chit chat in the kitchen and then I told him that I wanted to show him the Mario game.

I played a little and reiterated that my friend had almost beat every level and who would have thought she would ever play video games but we have had a lot of fun playing together.

Well WH read the paper and then S woke up. I got going and went grocery shopping etc.
(for your information, Saint, grocery shopping CAN be GAL when you want to do something w/out your baby, LOL! just teasing! But it is my Sunday tradition and is a necessary thing)

When I came back I asked for help unloading the car. Not only did he unload the car but he organized the garage fridge with pop and beer that I had in the fridge but still in the packaging!

I decided to be myself (imagine that!) and shared a couple of things that happened when I was out. He laughed.

I also asked him to let me know where to find the special lightbulbs in "my" bathroom so I could replace them. Well I went to work out and watched "500 Days of Summer" while I burned 500 calories in 48 minutes!

When I was done, I headed up to take a shower and WH informed me that he ordered the lightbulbs online and was holding one of them, following me upstairs. He said he would just put it back so moisture from the shower doesn't get into the socket (he's so anal retentive!) I said "oh- yikes it's messy in there!" (not the bathroom- just my bedroom w/ laundry to be put away and make-up/hair stuff all on the counter. I felt a little like he invaded my privacy even though he was doing me a favor!

So I managed to be authentically busy and myself at the same time. No D talk came up and I wouldn't expect R talk to come up!