Looking over my notes, I see clearly now that the DB Coach meant for me to keep the "WE own the separation" bit to myself. Lucky you picked up on it otherwise I may have run with it in a conversation or email with WH!
You've also made me calmer about the bank accounts, the apartment, and his boxes in my folks' garage (no pressure from them - just wondered if it was symbolically important like the bank accounts to say "I'm getting on with my life and your crap is in my way.." kinda thing - which will be kinda true if I move back in with my folks for the next 6months or so). When i mentioned getting his stuff out of there a few weeks ago, he said "why would you want me to do that? It will only cost US money if I have to pay for storage".
Off the L in a few hrs. Will report back!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
