Is it too late to expose affair?

[gardengirl72]

OK, so Allen, how do you suggest I bring this up to step-daughter?

I will really have to weigh the issue, because I know for a fact if I do that, my H would NEVER speak to me again and any form of reconciliation would be lost!!

My H has had 25 years of emotional turmoil and 5 years of joy at having been reunited with his daughter. He doesn't 'see' her mother as a threat to that relationship. Even though it is OW's fault for H not knowing daughter in first place!! He says he is so happy to finally have a chance to be with daughter....I can't 'win' either way.

Applying pressure to end affair has sent him up north to live....that didn't work either

I have tried to confront OW...she refused to talk to me!

It really does seem impossible .....gg