Luv if that is what you want you have support either way I am sure. However, I don't think that is REALLY what you want. I don't think you want him out of your house really because you wouldn't still be DBing. I don't have any advice besides what ST wrote...what is your plan? What do YOU really WANT for your family?
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo