Thanks you guys.I like all of the suggestions.

I think I isolated PROBLEM #1....

I let myself slip again and believe that we were 'friendy'...

Time to realize that WE are not friendy.....gotta remember that I need to take care of business and treat it as a business.

He was gone for almost a week, when he did call the house he was all chatty and friendly, it was this weird vibe where it felt like things were 'okay' in terms of having a friendy partnership for the kids.

But one conversation with him knocked me back into reality! grin

So I think email is the way to go. The problem with email is he is highly likely to avoid/ignore/blow off emails. So I will just have to have plan B in place for what I will do if he does not respond.

Jeff, I think I will go ahead and get clothes together for the kids to leave over at his house.

Gotta go, horrible migraine....more later


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17