How to approach W about OM

[Allen A]

You got the analogy right Maynard, thanks, I was sure what i wrote was clear enough... thanks for the support.

And no, I don't consider it the wrong image.

WHen your spouse is wayward, they are NOT cooperating and they ARE dangerous to themselves and others... they are WILD.

And they feel contained in a marriage, and they instinctively want OUT... its a perfect image to convey the situation.