All I can say is tanning....shite....I'm in the northern east coast I won't be able to tan for another few months.
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I find it ironic that the WS has all the support here...OM, MIL, hangers-on, etc...they sure do recruit all the support they need.
Yep i know the feeling....mine has the support of all of our mutual friends..the ones that are all divorced. You can't take it personal. The reality is that most friends will want the pain to end so that offer up the support. Since they usually do not understand the core issues they actually think they are doing the right thing. It is sad but true so once again don't take it personally.
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I love my WAW very much, I'm glad that she has people to lean on right now...sadly, she is avoiding the core issues I am attempting to face head-on.
That's why your a better man! You see you did not go running into the arms of someone else. You stood up, make your changes and dealt with it like a responsible adult. You should be VERY proud dude.
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I'm still feeling good...the house is pretty empty and that's OK...it can all be replaced.
I say get a dog
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I am going to GAL over the next 9 weeks by taking a course for voluteer rescue personel...for hurricanes and such...they meet every Wed and certify you in rescue techniques, protocol, and CPR. A few of my friends brought it to my attention...I like helping others and am very much into that sort of thing.
Nice idea... nothing like giving back and helping. It just goes to show the type of man that you are.
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I'm wondering, I know every sitch is diff...and I'm sure the following can occur...I'm curious if closure doesn't come...if WAS is so hell bent in what they're doing that it is never offerred? I know that I can start healing further as soon as I drop the rope...I feel like I kinda have, yet I am waiting for W to reappear to get the last of her shirt, so probably not that much.
Personally, I think closure will come when you are ready for it. Don't push it...take the time for you buddy.
God Bless Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
