I haven't seen my D other than a couple hrs in wks, total role reversal from a couple mo's ago.

It just hit me after reading thru Snodderly's posts to someone else.

My mlc'er had texted me in Jan, "why is D refusing to see me?"Me like a dummy, didn't make the convo short and sweet and told her why.

Now I realize it was jealousy on my mlc'er part and she had no choice but to swing D her way,that explains not making D come over and do what she wants. I text call D everyday, love you texts, man what an evil little game they play.

Oh well I'm still not taking control, want my D to want to see me vs have too. MLC'er and D made sure attmepts to help would backfire.

Had son for wkend, he's a great kid, anyway he wanted to stay with a friend tonite and I didn't want him to go because I'll miss him, but heck yeah son you can go, have fun, enjoyed this wkend, love and miss you.

It caught him off guard that I said ok, asked him to let his mom know.