I have a question here.

Is your WIFE telling HIS wife ANY of the details they are discussing?

Does she NOT CARE if her husband is gay? Does she not CARE that your wife claims to be in love with the man? Does his wife really care for this guy at all?

I want to know how she can possibly help this guy if they arne't sharing any info with his wife?

She's teh guys' wife, why isnt' she interested in what they are talking about?

I don't get it.. Ken, something's missing here... please fill us in... no woman is THAT trusting and THAT neieve.. I suspect you haven't told her everything.