You will know more about how you feel about closure when a month goes by when she isn't randomly yanking your chain. A month goes quickly too, in a sense. Set your blackout goal for weeks or months at a time and maybe it will seem more doable.
It seems on these boards that a lot of these infidelity sitches crash in 6 months to a year. Once you blackout and GAL, you may not be as open to piecing as you think. Who knows?
