you can sill do alot to change things...I can tell you, I am in AA as well...most of the people are extremely effed up- the guy is 33 and already M 3 times?! What is she thinking?!
I'm pretty effed up to, my issues are mostly based on codependancy...many people in AA are hypocrites- not all, but many...they talk the talk, they 13th step, they are selfish and self centered...I dont know what kind of program he works...but obv he is willing to pursue someone who's M...that speaks volumes.
My best friend down here shared w/ me last night that he was w/ a hick who was M...I about puked...given my sitch...I immediately let him know my thoughts and he understands...he is also in AA.
The trouble is people condone what the WS is doing...she says she's not happy and her needs aren't being met...like someone welse said- WE are capable of meeting our own needs, we dont NEED someone else to make us happy or sad.
I really feel for you, but I would PMA, GAl, 180 and slow play the D.
