"I wouldnt punish D3 by keeping her from seeing her mom, even though my ex is trying to do it to me."

REALLY? Aren't you the one who told your ex to not come to your D's school to see her? Sounds pretty hypocritical to you.

So after you vigorously look for work online. What do you do at home? Really? Be honest? What have you been doing for 2 years?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER