Husband in Crisis - what do I do?

[flowmom]

So, the neighbors want to throw him a party? I think I would put this in his ball park and let him make the decision. If they mention it again, just say "you will need to ask him about it" and let it go. He may not want a party and he should be the one to tell them what his desires are. If you were to provide an answer, no matter what it would be, he wouldn't be happy w/the response and that's the reason you toss this one into his court and let the man make the decision

I agree.