I don't think I would email again...hasn't he had the chance to do the honourable thing here?

My H doesn't love handing money over to me every month, but he's doing it for the sake of the children and out of a sense of responsibility. If your H is so far gone that he has lost sight of that, he probably does need legal action to wake up and smell the coffee.
Originally Posted By: lea74
Why do I feel guilty? Why am I nervous? Why do I still feel beholden to him and care what he thinks?
Because you haven't detached from your R yet and because there are some toxic elements to your M. It's going to take time, but maybe you're ready to try Step 1 of detaching.

See what I found out when I did step 1 of the detaching exercises:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1950158#Post1950158


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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