Thanks ladies - I love the reframing from both of you RW and FM. I"m gonna keep telling myself those things until I believe it!
ON the not fixing WAH subject - H is supposed to take S this afternoon so I can go to rehearsal. H is supposed to be here withing the next half hour. I have held back from reminding him it's daylight savings. I have sent him my rehearsal calender which he refused to look at last I heard. I'm not going to nag him. He's either going to be here for his S or I"m taking S with me. For S's sake, I hope H can show up. For my sake, I hope he doesn't - to let him dig his own hole and see that I"m not responsible for everything.
