I think part of the problem is, I have bent over backward to make things go smoothly. I typed up a list of the things I put in storage already that were his and a list of things still at the house that should go to him and emailed it awhile back. I asked for a reply on the things still at the house so I knew the plan/time frame. (Tools, lumber, deep freeze, things I can't carry out to storage)
So I feel like I am doing an amazing job of not being difficult, bitchy, demanding, impossible, all the things that 'betrayed' exwives do...
Then I ask him for time to review final details and be done with this and he looks at me like I want too much??? That I am unreasonable?
This is what I want. ONE HOUR tops, just Dan and I. Somewhere quiet. Just to go down the checklist:
1)Ok are you taking the treadmill? No? Ok I will keep it.
2)Let's deide on kid's clothes. I think you should keep some at your house so they don't bring a bag all the time.
etc etc
You who FB me know I am she of the checklists and color-coded spreadsheets. I do not do 'fly by the seat of my pants' when it comes to dividing my kids lives in half!!!!!!!!!!!!
So I guess I am so upset because I KNOW I am not difficult, I know I have my kids' best interest at heart, and I hate hate hate feeling like I am somehow being difficult when I am really trying to be helpful and get things done...
And I am so pissed at myself for crying in front of him. Haven't done that in a long time. I HATE when my mom cries to me, and I hate crying in front of him.
