Wow Cautious that is a difficult situation. Calling his friend and disclosing that info may not have been the best approach.
I believe flowmom is right. You have to back off from him. He should man up and take responsibility for his actions - don't get me wrong. Pursuing him with this though may really push him away.
I'm headed to JC's house this morning. I'm going to say a prayer for you.
Me-32 W-29 No kids ILYBNILWY 11.20.09 Separated 01.10.10 Discovered EA 01.13.10 W admitted to PA 02.21.10 I filed for D 03.09.10