V1olin's new life without wife

[ClingingToHope]

The dream thing is hard. How do you train your subconscious?

I'm lucky in that is a big enough area and my interests and circle of friends are vastly different than W and her family.

I've seen W's sister once since moving out -- Christmas -- and since I'm not going to do the "fake family" Christmas again I don't know when I'll ever see her again.

Likely it'll be at some kid event.

I keep toying with writing SIL a letter to tell her I'm glad she's gotten her life back on track -- but the longer I wait the less likely I will.