Is this piecing?

[flowmom]

Let's say that I accept your logic that he left because of you...which I don't. Usually when mothers are hard to live with it's because their needs are not being met and they have run out of strategies to deal with that. Can you see that meeting your needs and choosing different strategies is the kind of 180 that will make you a more appealing person to live with? If you were your H would you want to come home to the heavy energy of you tensed up waiting for him to be in a bad mood about the bombaversary...or would you like to come home to a woman who is laughing with her friend and S and relaxed and looking like she is ready to make the rest of her life fun and enjoyable?

I'm writing to myself as much as I am to you H4L!!